他 vs 她 vs 它

他 vs 她 vs 它: Chinese Pronouns for He, She, and It

Detailed Breakdown

Third person pronoun (male)

Grammar Pattern

他 + Verb / 他的 + Noun

Examples

  • 他是我的朋友

    tā shì wǒ de péngyou

    He is my friend

  • 他的书

    tā de shū

    his book

  • 我认识他

    wǒ rènshi tā

    I know him

Third person pronoun (female)

Grammar Pattern

她 + Verb / 她的 + Noun

Examples

  • 她是老师

    tā shì lǎoshī

    She is a teacher

  • 她的名字

    tā de míngzi

    her name

  • 我喜欢她

    wǒ xǐhuan tā

    I like her

Third person pronoun (animals/objects)

Grammar Pattern

它 + Verb / 它的 + Noun

Examples

  • 它是一只猫

    tā shì yì zhī māo

    It is a cat

  • 它的颜色

    tā de yánsè

    its color

  • 我找不到它

    wǒ zhǎo bù dào tā

    I can't find it

Side-by-Side Comparison

Comparison of 他, 她, 它 - key differences
Aspect
Refers toMale personFemale personAnimal/Object
Radical亻(person)女 (woman)宀 (roof)
Plural form他们她们它们
Pronunciation

Memory Tips

  • 他 has 亻(person radical) - generic person, defaults to male
  • 她 has 女 (woman radical) - clearly female
  • 它 has 宀 (roof) - things under a roof, not human

Common Mistakes

她是我的哥哥
他是我的哥哥

哥哥 (older brother) is male - use 他

他是我的妈妈
她是我的妈妈

妈妈 (mother) is female - use 她

我的狗,他很可爱
我的狗,它很可爱

For animals, use 它 (though 他/她 is sometimes used affectionately)

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do 他, 她, and 它 sound the same?

Chinese traditionally had only one spoken third-person pronoun "tā". The written distinction (他 for male, 她 for female, 它 for things) was introduced in the early 20th century, influenced by Western languages.

What if I don't know the gender?

Use 他 as the default/generic form when gender is unknown or when referring to a mixed group. 他们 can mean "they" for any group including mixed genders.

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