计较 (jì jiào): Bother about (Verb) — Meaning & Stroke Order

Don't fuss over trivial matters.

He is broad-minded and never haggles over personal gains and losses.

Regarding this unintentional offense, I suggest you don't bother about it.

Friends shouldn't calculate who gives more.

If neighbors always haggle over who gains and who loses, how can their relationship be harmonious?