斯文 (sī wen): Refined (Adjective) — Meaning & Stroke Order

He eats in a very refined manner, not even making a sound with his knife and fork.

At the formal dinner, his gentle conversation left a deep impression on all the guests.

This teacher behaves elegantly, and all the students like him very much.

He is not always that gentle; in private, he is actually a very humorous and witty person.